Did you have a mother that reminded you from time to time that, “Hey, be sure your sins will find you out?” I did.
Hi, I’m Rex Rogers and this is episode #181 of Discerning What Is Best, a podcast applying unchanging biblical principles in a rapidly changing world, and a Christian worldview to current issues and everyday life.
“Be sure your sins will find you out.” My Mother quoted this verse from time to time in my youth (Numbers 32:23).
A lot of Mothers have quoted this verse, and with good reason. They were trying to tell their teenagers that doing bad deeds rarely remain secret for long. Sooner or later, as they say in the halls of justice, “The truth will out.” So, our mothers’ point: we’d better take care to do right and do well if we wanted a good reputation and a bright future.
But we now live in the Cyber Age, which is to say, “of, relating to, or involving computers or computer networks (Internet).” We now have social media and the sources of Good and Evil are doing ongoing surveillance in our lives. And technology makes us more vulnerable than ever to our own foibles and bad judgment.
Nearly everyone is walking around with a smart phone. In a pocket, on his hip, in her purse is a mobile camera, audio recorder, and high-resolution video camera. And all these phones are linked to social media, so what’s captured can be posted in seconds for a worldwide audience.
In a nutshell, this means that what was once-private is private-no-more. Private has gone public at warp speed.
Celebrities are especially susceptible to missteps, which are almost instantaneously writ large for the world. They’re more susceptible not because they’re necessarily more inclined to stupidity or bad behavior (though this is debatable). No, they just spend their lives trying to be relevant and create photo ops, so they’re literally plugged in more than the average citizen.
-The leaking of several alleged DMs where he said he was "100% a cannibal," Armie Hammer was dropped by his publicist, dropped by his agent, and dropped out of multiple projects.
-Roseanne Barr lost her TV sit com job after several racist tweets surfaced.
-Mel Gibson’s self-destructive , drunk, racist rants hit the news not once but thrice, all recorded for posterity.
-Alec Baldwin infamously berated his then-11-year-old daughter on her cell phone voice mail.
-Baywatch star David Hasselhoff apparently asked his then-16-year-old daughter to video tape him if he got drunk, so he could later see for himself how bad his addiction had become. Her video of her half-naked, falling-down drunk father slobbering over a hamburger is difficult to watch. But watch it we may on the net.
Celebrity brushes with social media infamy are legion, many of them resulting from unexpected photos or videos of them with someone other than their spouse, thus resulting in later divorce.
But celebrities aren’t alone. Not a month goes by without some new story of a kid (immature by definition) going too far—naively or with malice aforethought—posting content online that, whoops, proves to be illegal, or just stupid.
One high school youth posted pictures of his teenage peers engaging in sexual encounters at a party. Dumb? Yes. Naïve? Probably, but also criminal because the photographed individuals were underage. Now this young man faces jail time, a record, and a damaged life.
Another college youth posted video online, this one featuring him singing sexually risqué lyrics seemingly in front of a group of elementary school children. Turns out, he’d edited his song into an earlier video of the children, so they hadn’t actually heard the song, yet were still pictured in the video. It was a joke, he said, but parents, school officials, and local authorities weren’t laughing. Now despite his apologies he faces criminal charges for posting pictures of minors in a “sexual situation.”
Teens, even “tweens,” are not just texting but “sexting,” meaning they’re sending suggestive words, pictures, and videos of themselves to others. Aside from the moral concerns raised by this practice, these youth are engaging in behavior that makes them vulnerable to sexual predators, stalkers, criminal indictments, or simply embarrassment and broken relationships.
And don’t forget, because the Internet won’t. Whatever is posted online lives in perpetuity in cyberspace. Even more so if it becomes popular, i.e., “goes viral.” The posted material can be accessed, reposted, hyperlinked, and downloaded indefinitely.
Or it may “go away” only to return a few years later when the content originators or participants are applying for college or graduate school, interviewing for employment, dating or getting married, or running for office.
Remember too, if police can track perpetrators’ online activities, other people can track yours. Emails are discoverable in lawsuits. Individuals have lost their jobs, some in ministry, when their online history was later for some reason revealed.
Country clubs and athletic clubs ban cell phone use in locker rooms because illicit photographs have been spirited from these “private” domains. Suspicious wives are using Google Street View webcams to catch husbands visiting paramours.
Scanners pick up local phone conversations.
Ostensibly for marketing purposes, corporations now snoop legally into a wide array of once private but now online personal data. We leave electronic fingerprints online, this information is digitized, and it can be sold. Certain companies also conduct what’s called “data mining,” selling their research capabilities to anyone willing to pay.
Who you are is on the grid. Google your own name and see what comes up.
Since 2003, social media like Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, Twitter or X, YouTube, and more have made telling our story ever easier.
Social media has put a culture that’s already predisposed to exaggerated self-expression on steroids. If anything, social media seems to encourage our human penchant for narcissism, for proclaiming “I am here,” “I am somebody.”
Beginning with Boomers, my generation, and especially the later generations, we seem to crave publicity in any form. We must be on stage, on camera, on air, online.
This is the genesis of “reality TV.” It’s a driving part of our psyche, our therapeutic need to express, confess, and profess.
Millennials and the younger Generations, Z and Alpha, are even more inclined to say or do anything for the camera, as long as they get their moment.
They don’t have to work at it. I’ve shared in this podcast before that nearly everywhere we go we are now on camera. Atlanta remains the most surveilled city in America. Virtually everywhere we go we’re now on one of a ubiquitous array of ground or satellite cameras. Nowhere is “safe” from the prying eyes of the technological grid. You’re on the grid whether you want to be or not.
Well, how you process all this is up to you. It is still, praise God, a free country.
But surely it would behoove us to remember how the wisest man Solomon summarized life:
He said,
“Now all has been heard;
here is the conclusion of the matter:
Fear God and keep his commandments,
for this is the duty of all mankind.
For God will bring every deed into judgment,
including every hidden thing,
whether it is good or evil.” (Ecclesiastes 12:13-14).
What’s utterly amazing is not that Tiger Woods’s proclivities came out a few years ago, but that they took so relatively long to do so in this no-secrets era. But, still, his experience is a reminder of many a mother’s injunction, “Be sure your sins will find you out.”
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It’s a big world out there – what kind of people are in it?
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If we were to think about different kinds of people in the world we could approach the question in several ways.
For example, when I was born in late 1952, just 10 days before General Dwight D. “I Like Ike” Eisenhower was elected President of the United States, there were about 2.6B people in the world. Now, there are 8.1B. Despite the more than 65.5M abortions in the U.S. since 1973, U.S. population at 341.5M is more than twice the number than when I was born.
Or we could consider nations states. There are 195 recognized nations currently, meaning 195 nationalities.
How about languages? Experts estimate there are between 6,000 and 7,100+ languages in the world. These languages are spoken by approximately 7.9 billion people, about 95% of the world’s population. The remaining 5% of the population speaks a smaller number of languages, with some languages having only a few hundred speakers.
Or we could consider race. Five races are commonly cited. But Ken Ham of Authors in Genesis and the Ark Encounter notes, there is only “one blood, one race,” the human race. He cites Acts 17:26: “From one man he made all the nations, that they should inhabit the whole earth; and he marked out their appointed times in history and the boundaries of their lands.”
Sex, of course, male and female, is another way to think of kinds of people in the world. This biological characteristic crosses all boundaries and is a feature of the human race. And sex, more than any other trait, influences the trajectory of our lives. Nothing affects us more than the fact that we are created either a man or a woman.
Another way of considering kind of people in the world is the reductionist division now promoted by the political Left. “That premise is that the world is divided between oppressors and the oppressed, and that the oppressors are always evil and their victims already virtuous.”
“The lesson pounded into young heads is that the greatest evil in world history is colonialism, that all nations that held colonies and all their citizens were oppressors, and that all residents of any colony were virtuous victims with the right to commit violence to liberate themselves from oppression.” Never mind that this simplistic equation does not fit the facts of history, that in all nations people act with mixed motives, and no people group is wholly guilty of all that is now being alleged, including the U.S.
But of all these ways of considering types of people in the world, biblically, or if you prefer theologically or spiritually, we could observe that there are but two kinds of people:
Sinners in need of grace refers to people who have not trusted in and accepted Jesus Christ as their Savior. They have not been “born again” as noted in John 3:3.
The other type of person, sinners saved by grace, is the one I wish to focus upon in this podcast. Sinners saved by grace have indeed been born again. They have understood the Scripture, “for it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast” Eph 2:8-9. They have confessed their sin, Rom 10:9-10, trusted in Christ’s shed blood and in him alone, for forgiveness, reconciliation, and salvation.
We know how important “saved by grace” is because it references the blessed hope, for which we rightly praise God and sing hallelujah. It is the bridge to experiencing eternity in heaven with the Lord. I am a sinner saved by grace.
Now as I said, we rightfully get excited about the “saved by grace” part of that statement. But notice that it does not say, former sinners saved by grace or used-to-be sinners saved by grace, or sin-be-gone sinners saved by grace. So, while at the time of our salvation we receive the Holy Spirit who the Scripture says seals us unto the day of redemption (Eph. 4:30), and at the point of our salvation “therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” (2 Cor. 5:17), still, we remain sinners in a fallen world.
So, who attends the local church where my wife and I worship? A bunch of sinners.
If you ask my Good Wife what is the husband like to whom she will soon have been married for 50 years? She will say, “He’s a sinner. Do you want illustrations? I could write a book.” Now, please don’t ask her that. I’d rather she not write that book.
Though we are sinners saved by grace, we are yet sinners living in a fallen world.
What are the implications of this?
In Galatians, the Apostle Paul said, “So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want” Gal. 5:14-17.
The Apostle goes on to say his means we will either be subject to, or we will subject someone else to, the following: lying, gossiping, stealing, immorality, idolatry, hatred, discord, jealousy, rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions, envy, drunkenness” Gal. 5:119-21.
Now remember, this is not a list of sins aimed at us by what preachers used to call “the world,” the sinners in need of grace. There will be plenty of this in a fallen world, but this list references the kind of attitudes and behaviors that come right out of our own sinful natures. If we embrace or pursue these attitudes and behaviors, and at some point, we all do, then we do nothing but darken and destroy ourselves and those around us.
Let me share a few direct examples out of my 35 years serving in upper-level administration in Christian organizations. I am not innocent here, nor a hero, but I share one man’s account offered as an illustration.
In those 35 years, I cannot name one non-believing person who stood between me and my stated Christian goals for the Christian organization I served, but I can name many Christians who did exactly this.
In those 35 years, and remember I am talking about Christian personnel, I have been lied to, cursed, had doors slammed on me, surreptitiously attacked in the press, been the subject of mass mailed letters attacking my integrity and Christian commitment, was the object of what amounted to a coup d’état attempt by an organizational officer and a trustee, both of whom later left the organization.
Maybe worse, in my assigned executive position, I had to deal with several instances of infidelity involving Christian personnel.
You could say, “Welcome to leadership” and be correct, but that sounds flippant, and I don’t mean it that way. What I mean is that because we are sinners saved by grace, and we still sin, we cause all manner of problems for ourselves, our families, our churches, and perhaps our network of acquaintances.
Knowing we are sinners saved by grace, what should we be doing?
1) Manage our own walk with the Lord.
“Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers” 1 Tim 4:16.
2) Work as unto the Lord.
“And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him” Col 3:17, 23.
3) Bare one another’s burdens and pray for one another.
“Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. (also see Matt 18) But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, for each one should carry their own load” Gal 6:1-5.
The Apostle has one last thought for us: “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up” Gal 6:9.
Well, we’ll see you again soon. This podcast is about Discerning What Is Best. If you find this thought-provoking and helpful, follow us on your favorite podcast platform. Download an episode for your friends. For more Christian commentary, check my website, r-e-x-m as in Martin, that’s rexmrogers.com.
And remember, it is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm.
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In the shrinking…No, strike that. In the shrunk world in which we live, surrounded by pervasive communications technology and every-minute-of-every-day media, nearly nothing can or does happen, well, just privately. Virtually everything is or will be known. Nothing “stays” anywhere. Ask celebrities.
Tiger Woods understands what I just said. So do a long list of male politicians. How many can you name who’s “private” affairs didn’t remain private, even when they so wished they would? John Edwards, David Petraeus, Arnold Schwarzenegger, and the beat goes on. No, nothing that happens just stays undercover, or in these cases, under covers.
In scriptural terms the opposite of “What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas” is “Be sure that your sin will find you out” (Numbers 32:23). Or as the legal community puts it, “the truth will out.” Mothers know this; somehow they always know, remember?
What happens in Washington, DC doesn’t stay there. What happens in the Middle East certainly isn’t limited to the Middle East.
What happens in our own hearts doesn’t stay in our hearts either: “But the things that come out of a person’s mouth come from the heart, and these defile them. For out of the heart come evil thoughts—murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander” (Matthew 15:18-19). So it’s too bad, actually, that what’s in our hearts doesn’t stay there. We’d all be better off.
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In order to "do" this thing called "living" everyone alive must "act." We must do something, and when we do something we do it based upon choices. These choices are based upon our values and, in a larger sense, our philosophy of life, otherwise known as a worldview. So when we exercise our values by making choices, which allows us to do something by taking action, we reveal more about ourselves than perhaps we know. We "are" our values.
When we act we reveal, day by day, something about our character. As time passes, these acts of character or the lack thereof become patterns, i.e., our reputation, which in the end becomes our legacy. If we don't see it, surely "the pattern of our life," after a time, becomes evident to people around us.
Question is this: What is the pattern of your life? Or mine?
Another question logically follows: What does the pattern of your life say to others about what and who you really are?
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I lifted weights, fairly seriously I might add, throughout my high school experience and for a while into college. I enjoyed the activity and the sport. I read weightlifting and bodybuilding magazines, learned about fitness, and followed the careers of the sport's heroes. There was none bigger, in more ways than one, than Arnold Schwarzenegger.
Arnold was not a weightlifter per se but a bodybuilder. He lifted to develop his fitness and physique, and he won every bodybuilding title worth winning, including Mr. Olympia and Mr. Universe—several times. His over-sized but perfectly proportioned body was a wonder, as were the circumference of his biceps.
It was fun to read about his bodybuilding efforts, and it was even more fun when he relocated to America from his native Austria and produced one of the first notable bodybuilding-weightlifting-fitness films, “Pumping Iron.” Then came the movie career, the amusing if forgettable “Conan” films, assorted others including the silly comedy “Twins” with Danny DeVito and the enjoyable dramedy “Kindergarten Cop.” About the time a lot of people wrote Arnold off as a terminal B-movie actor he introduced a different kind of terminal: the global blockbuster known as the “Terminator” films. Arnold had proved them all wrong.
Clearly Arnold Schwarzenegger wasn’t just another muscle-bound dumb guy. He made it in a challenging industry, becoming box office gold in the process. He became one of those people immediately recognizable simply by their first name. He was just “Arnold,” known as widely in Japan as in the States.
Marrying Maria Shriver was a surprise. Now Arnold really seemed to have made it. He became an adopted son, so to speak, in the Kennedy family. The American political dynasty, Democrat no less, somehow made room for this huge Republican. Needless to say this only added to Arnold’s mystique, his brand.
Fast-forward twenty-five years: an apparently good marriage, the successful movie career, four children with Maria, and a term as California Governor. Good stuff to say the least. Then last week the Schwarzeneggers announce their separation. Say what? Why? It wasn’t long in coming. A few days later Arnold admits to having had an affair more than a decade ago with a household staff member, fathering a child. Making matters worse, he apparently conducted the affair at about the same time Maria was pregnant with their fourth child. Making it worse still, unless Maria knows more than she’s let on, Arnold somehow kept the affair and the child secret until last week. But, truth finally trumped the Terminator. Maria walked out. Now rumors are surfacing the marriage has been in trouble for years.
No one, me included, ever thought of Arnold as a saint. He was known early on as a womanizer. Just before he entered the Governor’s mansion he was accused of “groping” women and Maria had to defend him. No, we knew Arnold, as he put it in 2003, was capable of “behaving badly sometimes.” But we never suspected he was capable of lying to his spouse for more than a decade. Or that he was living a lie before the American public.
To my knowledge, Arnold has never made any pretense to religion. He is who he is. But herein is the disappointment. He is who he is, which means he is not who he claimed that he is. We thought he’d grown up. We thought he’d put his womanizing past in the past. We thought he was a smart fellow, which he is, but he wasn’t smart enough to make right choices or simply to do right by the spouse and the children with which he has been so richly blessed.
So Arnold isn’t much of a hero after all. He’s just another one of those guys who selfishly puts his own desires ahead of all others. He’s another one of those political leaders who, in the end, lacks character, not only marital fidelity but honesty. He is, ironically, a lot like several of the Kennedy men.
Arnold’s life isn’t over. He can make amends and rebound. But will he? I don’t know, and given that he’s one of the sports and entertainment figures I considered interesting, I find it all quite sad.
Arnold is just a man, not a machine, but because he is, there is hope. I trust that somehow in all this, through some friend perhaps, Arnold will discover the God of second chances, who expects sincere repentance, and who then forgives, heals, and reconciles. It would be a powerful story if the Terminator discovered his potential and his legacy don’t have to terminate here.
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Alexander Graham Bell aimed high. In 1876 his first message over his new telephone was, “Mr. Watson. Come here. I want to see you.”
When Mr. Watson heard him, the 29 year-old Bell rushed to the correct government office with his phone patent, beating a competitor by only a few hours, and launching an invention that would change communication into the Twenty-First Century. The next year, Bell married Mabel and formed the Bell Telephone Company, thereby providing his family with a substantial income for the rest of their lives.
Blessed with an abiding intellectual curiosity, Alexander Graham Bell developed and tested ideas for kites, sheep-breeding, desalinization techniques, water distillation, and a metal breathing device, forerunner of the iron lung.
Bell invented a “photophone,” a device transmitting sound over a beam of light. He considered the photophone his most important invention, perhaps for good reason, for it became a precursor to modern laser and fiber optics technology. Bell spent the latter years of his life working on flight machines, and his hydrofoil set a water speed record in 1919 that remained unsurpassed until 1963.
Fame and fortune were not Alexander Graham Bell’s goals, yet he received and achieved them. Discovery and invention were his goals. He became a great American scientist and success story because he used all of his considerable talents. He took risks and he worked diligently. He developed and applied his vision for a different tomorrow. Through it all he remained a man of notable character.
Bell defined a particularly attractive kind of “success”—talent plus work ethic plus character. We have some “Alexander Graham Bell’s” among us today but not enough. When you add the character element the pool of worthies shrinks quickly.
It seems as if not a month goes by without hearing of some highly talented and “successful” individual whose character, or lack of it, has brought them low, tainting their reputation and legacy, e.g., Tiger Woods, Mel Gibson, authors of bestsellers later charged with plagiarism or lies, Lindsay Lohan, multiple affairs of numerous political leaders like former South Carolina Governor Mark Sanford, Bernie Madoff. This list goes on.
Talent matters. Everyone’s been blessed with multi-talent potential. This we can choose to develop.
Character matters too. This we develop, intentionally or not, one decision at a time. Bell did both throughout his life. So can we.
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